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QUOTE (housedoc @ Feb 17 2009, 03:54 PM) Unfortunately the tone of the written word is easily misinterpreted.
I wasn`t trying to ridicule or humiliate. Far from it! Nor was I trying to imply that I`m an experienced investor. I own 1 building, 3 doors as you folks say.
That`s why my questions had possible options. I`m trying to better understand the financing side. Also, I enquired with whom a seemingly unqualified buyer would be negotiating. I thought I was asking legitimate questions. That hardly makes me a bully.
Having been a self-employed, single parent, without a high income, I recognize how difficult it is to get a mortgage.
Some of your fellow REIN members have also asked how he expects to get investors without bringing anything but enthusiasm to the table. Why pick on me?
I really don`t think I was picking on you, rather I was defending the original poster`s right to ask legitimate questions and his courageous attempt at getting in the game.
Here is what you initially said:
QUOTE (housedoc @ Feb 16 2009, 06:25 PM) http://http://www.myreinspace.com/forums/#50818Come on!
Surely this guy has no hope of getting a mortgage!
Other than VTB of the entire amount, private funding, or having his parents co-sign, what chance is there of financing?
I`m guessing zero.
How can he even be negotiating? With whom? Maybe a friend or family member.
I`m perplexed by the scenario and surprised by the encouraging responses
I`m thinking that`s a little patronizing and far from helpful and sounds more like singling out an individual for trying and failing.
The original poster then gave legitimate reasons why he had no income and in fact may be successful in creating an offer.
I`m a REIN member and one of the reasons is the educational process is so comprehensive, additionally the attitude is helpful not patronizing.
I wasn`t trying to ridicule or humiliate. Far from it! Nor was I trying to imply that I`m an experienced investor. I own 1 building, 3 doors as you folks say.
That`s why my questions had possible options. I`m trying to better understand the financing side. Also, I enquired with whom a seemingly unqualified buyer would be negotiating. I thought I was asking legitimate questions. That hardly makes me a bully.
Having been a self-employed, single parent, without a high income, I recognize how difficult it is to get a mortgage.
Some of your fellow REIN members have also asked how he expects to get investors without bringing anything but enthusiasm to the table. Why pick on me?
I really don`t think I was picking on you, rather I was defending the original poster`s right to ask legitimate questions and his courageous attempt at getting in the game.
Here is what you initially said:
QUOTE (housedoc @ Feb 16 2009, 06:25 PM) http://http://www.myreinspace.com/forums/#50818Come on!
Surely this guy has no hope of getting a mortgage!
Other than VTB of the entire amount, private funding, or having his parents co-sign, what chance is there of financing?
I`m guessing zero.
How can he even be negotiating? With whom? Maybe a friend or family member.
I`m perplexed by the scenario and surprised by the encouraging responses
I`m thinking that`s a little patronizing and far from helpful and sounds more like singling out an individual for trying and failing.
The original poster then gave legitimate reasons why he had no income and in fact may be successful in creating an offer.
I`m a REIN member and one of the reasons is the educational process is so comprehensive, additionally the attitude is helpful not patronizing.
